tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809924206725113744.post5522086430407993776..comments2023-10-05T01:36:11.563+09:00Comments on Okaasan Mommy: (Not) Loving Your ChildCoffeegrljphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11296553557331594645noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809924206725113744.post-64059616520675980212010-06-04T23:11:03.788+09:002010-06-04T23:11:03.788+09:00It made me very uncomfortable to read the first st...It made me very uncomfortable to read the first story. I can't imagine feeling that way, and I don't want to imagine it. If anything, I think for me it would be the other way around. I really don't care much for newborns in general, and the post-partum period was really rough on me the first time, and I think I'll feel immense relief at seeing Z and remembering normalcy. Honestly, I'd rather it take a little extra time to bond deeply with the new baby than to feel distant from Z. The baby won't know the difference as long as I fake it and take care of her physical needs.Furrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08617566957749784387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809924206725113744.post-27338893556260583062010-06-04T07:30:08.380+09:002010-06-04T07:30:08.380+09:00CG - both posts were so good. Although we have no...CG - both posts were so good. Although we have no plans or ability to add to our family, I've often thought that the dynamics and relationship I've built with Jun would change (not like it doesn't grow and change every day, but...) - and that brings a sense of loss to me. I hope you will continue to post about this once Peanut's little sibiling is born. I'm sure it will be helpful for others to see the reality of how it all works! Can't wait for pictures!!!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05848246862878846083noreply@blogger.com